March 17, 2026 | By: Blake Cohen, PsyD(c)

Horrible Bosses: Why Having a Bad Boss Breeds Burnout 

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Before I tell you what I said, here’s a quick recap of how I landed in my boss’s office, preparing to quit a job I had been working for five and a half years and, if I’m being honest, was prepared to work the rest of my life at. Six weeks prior, there had been a changing of the guard. The CEO I had worked for from the start was being replaced by someone with little industry credibility, questionable ethics, and a knack for getting under people’s skin using snide comments and aggression. They also had some bad leadership habits they brought into the system. Let’s just say micromanagement is relaxed compared to how they managed.

Ultimately, the culture and team we had developed since I started in this role were quickly dismantled in a short 6-week window. Six weeks in, and I am one of the last people standing from the remaining crew who had all either quit or had been fired.

It was now my turn to leave.


Now, back to their office. “I’ve decided to accept a position somewhere else, “I sheepishly blurted.

Silence. Silence. Silence. More Silence. The pulse in my neck was actually hurting my ear from beating so violently.

“Okay, why? Because I tell the truth around here?” they responded.

I was so confused by this response. Tell the truth? “What are you talking about?!” I wanted to shout. However, I responded in the most politically correct way possible, “Unfortunately, I believe I’ve reached my capacity here and have an offer that I, simply, cannot pass up.”

I chickened out of telling the truth, just like the rest of my former teammates did. Why? I was afraid of retaliation.

Truthfully, I’m grateful for this experience because it ignited in me the urge to begin studying leadership. And you know what I found? I’m not alone in my experience. In fact, a recent survey and report by BambooHR was just released (2025), and the data tells an interesting tale, particularly when combined with other research, of just why having a bad boss is called “toxic.”


Breaking Down the Recent Report

BambooHR (2025) surveyed over 1,000 employees to better understand how employees feel their boss affects them. The results led BambooHR to release what they’re calling the “Bad Boss Index.” Here are some of the key findings:

  • 70% of respondents felt their boss had a positive impact on job satisfaction, while 53% said their boss influenced their decision to leave.
  • More than half (59%) of respondents worry about retaliation when providing feedback or reporting issues with their manager.
  • “Bad bosses” seem to outnumber the good, with 70% of respondents saying it was somewhat or very common to encounter bad bosses at work.

These statistics had me curious and wondering how people were defining a “bad boss.” According to the report, the behavioral characteristics of bad bosses that were most highly reported were:

  • Overworking the team/unrealistic expectations (54%)
  • Being hypercritical (54%)
  • Being unethical (62%)

Other behaviors we’re described as “top dealbreakers” like the ones above were, but were described as “pet peeves” that frustrated employees:

  • Disorganized (33%)
  • Micromanaging (29%)
  • Unapproachable, inflexible (27%)

Some of the data related to retention and employees leaving positions or the company altogether is interesting as well. As mentioned, 53% of employees noted that their boss was an influential factor in their decision to leave a position. The top reasons for a boss-related departure were:

  • Unpleasant interpersonal interactions (47%)
  • Favoritism of other employees (36%)
  • Micromanagement (33%)

It should be noted again that 70% of employees feel their boss had a significant or somewhat significant positive impact on their overall job satisfaction, which tells us that having a good boss plays a large role in employee satisfaction.

The last section worth discussing is the section on retaliation. The report states that more than 3 out of 4 employees reported experiencing some type of retaliation for speaking out against their manager. The types of retaliation that were most common were:

  • Receiving an inaccurate performance evaluation that is lower than it should be (31%)
  • Being reprimanded (30%)
  • Experiencing increased scrutiny (28%)
  • Being subjected to more difficult work conditions (25%)
  • Physical or verbal abuse (21%)
  • Being a victim of false rumors spread by the manager (18%)
How Much Do Bosses Influence Job Satisfaction and Retention?

Even though most employees report a positive influence from their manager, over half say their boss affects their decision to leave.


How Much Do Bosses Influence Job Satisfaction and Retention?

Ethical concerns and overworking the team top the list, but even “pet peeves” like disorganization and micromanagement frustrate employees.


Top Boss-Related Reasons Employees Leave Their Jobs

Relationship friction and unfair treatment are the biggest drivers of turnover.


Types of Retaliation Employees Report After Speaking Up

More than 3 out of 4 employees reported experiencing some form of retaliation. This illustrates how critical psychological safety is in the workplace.


BambooHR’s (2025) report makes it clear that a good or bad boss impacts the workplace and how people feel about their jobs. A boss can either create satisfaction or cause people to feel fear and want to leave their role. The report also makes it clear how important autonomy, respect, psychological safety, and open feedback systems are.

Now, given that Spirence is a platform designed for helping everyone achieve whole-person-mastery through engaging, relevant content focused on mental health and leadership skills development, I wanted to dive a bit further into some existing research to see what other effects having a “bad boss” might have on a person’s well-being, motivation, and more.


Bad Bosses and Burnout, Motivation, Engagement, and Mental Health

The BambooHR (2025) study discussed employee dissatisfaction when a “bad boss” looms over employees, and that dissatisfaction could be a motivating factor for people to seek work elsewhere. What I wanted to know is what happens before a person reaches the point of quitting? How are they affected personally and professionally?

Well, it turns out, they are affected quite a bit. In a study by Wolor et al. (2022), the authors found a statistically significant negative effect on work motivation among those exposed to toxic leaders. In other words, they found that the more “toxic” a leader is, the less motivated employees are to get their work done. To add to this, a Gallup (2020) survey found that 70% of people’s level of work engagement was determined solely by who was managing them.

Burnout is on everyone’s minds right now, with a recent survey revealing that over 78% of folks in the U.S. report symptoms of burnout. It turns out, having a “bad boss” can make burnout more likely, according to McKinsey’s (2022) survey of 14,509 people. They found that toxic workplace behavior was the single biggest predictor of burnout symptoms. Combine that with a recent survey from the American Psychological Association (2023) that found that workers who reported a toxic workplace were more than three times as likely to report harm to their mental health compared to those in a healthy workplace, and you’ve got a recipe for disaster.

Sure, BambooHR’s (2025) “Bad Boss Index” cites job satisfaction declines due to “bad bosses,” but what might actually be going on, if we want to explain the dissatisfaction based on the other research we found, is rising burnout, declining mental health, lower employee engagement, and reduced motivational drive. All concerns that are not only detrimental to business, but they are also detrimental to our humanity.


All is Not Lost

If anything, the “Bad Boss Index” sheds light on something we already know: the impact of leadership – good or bad – cannot be ignored.

Now, I believe very few people wake up as a boss and say, “I want to ruin the lives of my teammates today and destroy the company in the process.” Chances are, most people engaging in “bad boss” behavior haven’t been trained appropriately. It’s not that they are bad people. They’ve been put into a role and now have the responsibility of helping others do their jobs well, meeting KPIs, coping with pressure from above, and performing well themselves.

Awareness is the first step to change. It’s important for leaders to engage in a reflective practice. Ask ourselves:

  • How am I showing up today?
  • What emotional baggage am I carrying into my role?
  • How are other people receiving me?
  • What kind of leader do I want to be?

Thanks to the recent BambooHR (2025) report discussed above, we now know some behaviors to avoid. Are we engaging in any of them? If so, why? What does it look like if you tried a different approach?

Spirence is uniquely equipped to help as well. The Spirence platform offers several expert-driven leadership seminars, courses, and coaching sessions on various aspects of leadership and well-being, and both are equally important here. So, whether you want to learn about Transformational Leadership, Emotional Intelligence, Trauma, Stress Management, Developing Communication Skills, or any other of the dozens of choices on the platform, it’s built to uniquely serve you in achieving whole-person mastery inside and outside of the workplace.

No one likes a “bad boss.” Not at work, and not at home.

The good news is, just because you may have some bad habits as a boss now, you can always grow, develop, and change if you have the desire to do so. Spirence is here to help you do so.

Leading others always begins with leading ourselves. Remember that.

Cheers!

Blake Cohen | PsyD(c)

References:

American Psychological Association. (2023). 2023 work in America survey. https://www.apa.org/pubs/reports/work-in-america

BambooHR. (2025). The hostile, the unfair, and the toxic: Bad boss index 2025. https://www.bamboohr.com/resources/guides/bad-boss-index

Gallup. (2020). What is employee engagement and how do you improve it? https://www.gallup.com/workplace/285674/improve-employee-engagement-workplace.aspx

McKinsey Health Institute. (2022). Addressing employee burnout: Are you solving the right problem? McKinsey & Company. https://www.mckinsey.com/mhi/our-insights/addressing-employee-burnout-are-you-solving-the-right-problem

Wolor, C. W., Ardiansyah, A., Rofaida, R., Nurkhin, A., & Rababah, M. A. (2022). Impact of Toxic Leadership on Employee Performance. Health psychology research, 10(4), 57551. https://doi.org/10.52965/001c.57551


Trust is the Culture: Bill Stedman on Human Connection at Work
February 23, 2026 | By: Spirence

Trust is the Culture: Bill Stedman on Human Connection at Work

In this episode of Prevention Pioneers, the President of Lockton Philadelphia, Bill Stedman, shares how he builds stronger workplaces as a leader focused on human connection.


Creating a work environment that supports employee satisfaction and retention is a challenge for many organizations. According to our host, Laura, Bill Stedman is “known for building cultures rooted in trust and connection.” For today’s guest, a healthy workplace climate comes down to factors like trust, communication, and empathy.

Let’s explore Bill’s leadership tips for fostering relationships and guidance on how to improve your company culture.

Why Connection-First Leadership Builds Stronger Workplaces

When asked how to build a healthier and more resilient culture, Bill’s answer was simple: “Get to know your employees.”

Being present is one of the simplest ways to do this, which is why he values in-office culture. Proximity creates natural opportunities for connection.

Bill explains that when employees are in the office, they have more natural opportunities to connect over “watercooler talk.” They can be open and candid about their lives, which leads to “being a part of something larger than you…and saying…I’m not the only one struggling with this. It’s pretty powerful.”

Connection builds a sense of belonging and safety and is a protective factor for workplace resilience. The other factors we’ll cover here, like trust, communication, and empathy, drive that sense of connection.

Practical Ways to Connect With Employees

Bill’s ideal for connection is spending time in person with employees, creating space for those open conversations. Here are some other tactics you can try to build connections in your workplace:

  • Periodically take employees or teams out for a coffee or a meal
  • Give new hires a “new hire buddy” they can check in with at set touchpoints
  • Create structured peer learning moments, like a Lunch and Learn led by an employee
  • Add short “wins and lessons” roundups to your meetings
  • For hybrid workplaces, leave space on in-office days for casual interactions
  • For remote workplaces, set rituals and manager habits that encourage employees to interact

Trust as a Business Strategy

Getting to know employees and clients also builds trust. It’s the baseline for communication and retention, driving all areas of business, from internal culture to external efforts. Bill says, “Sales and partnership is all about trust. That’s where it starts and stops.”

Bill believes that what sets Lockton apart from competitors is the relationships it builds with clients and its personal knowledge of them. This starts internally by getting to know employees.

He makes it a point to take them out to dinner because, as he says, “that’s where you really get to know someone. Their background, their history, what they believe in.”

Actionable Ways Leaders Can Build Trust at Work

Aside from getting to know people, there are many ways to build trust at work, including:

  • Consistency – Do what you say
  • Clarity – Reduce ambiguity
  • Fairness – Be transparent with decisions
  • Repair – Address breaks in trust quickly

Empathy Connects Employees to the “Why” Behind Their Roles

Empathy improves collaboration and supports psychological safety.

When speaking about how to help employees feel more connected to what they do and why they do it, Bill emphasized its importance: “Empathy is incredibly important… Empathy is putting yourself in somebody else’s shoes and trying to understand what they’re hearing or what they’re seeing, what they’re feeling, enables us… to deliver a better product, a better outcome.”

Tactics to Encourage Empathy Without Burning Out

Leaders can build empathy in their workplaces with the following tips:

  • Check in with your employees. Ask questions like “What’s the hardest part of this week?” or “What would make this 20% easier?”
  • Reflect on what you heard and validate it to confirm understanding
  • Name uncertainty, such as “Here’s what we know, here’s what we don’t know yet, and here’s when we’ll update.”
  • Normalize boundaries like taking PTO and not responding after work hours

How Communication & Collaboration Shape Culture

Communication and collaboration go hand in hand, especially when it comes to culture. When Bill considers organizational culture, “the first thing I go to is just communication needs…There needs to be paths for communication to make sure that collaboration is not impeded.”

Bill also praised a flat organizational structure in which everyone is valued without hierarchy. He said, “We are super team-oriented…everybody’s got a unique ability and…we’re all equal members and of equal importance on that team.”

Bill also warns leaders not to assume what others are thinking or feeling. Instead, empower them to use their voice. He says, “I try to encourage somebody to say, hey, listen, we’re all in this together. Everybody has a key role… Everybody has a voice, and we all have to make sure that we’re all comfortable using our voice at the right time.”

Design Teams and Processes for Better Collaboration

When planning how to improve company culture with communication, consider the following tactics:

  • Evaluate how you implement hierarchy. Does it impede employees’ ability to work together or openly voice ideas?
  • Make it clear where important updates live, who has decision rights, who should advise on decisions, and how to raise a concern when needed.
  • Identify cross-functional teams for key initiatives.
  • Identify shared definitions of “done.”
  • Watch out for collaboration red flags on projects: unclear ownership, approval pile-ups, recurring misunderstandings.

Turning Teams into Community

Community is not passive. It’s something leaders and employees invest in. Community increases loyalty, retention, and resilience. Bill says, “You will get out of community what you put into it.”

He reflects that being in athletics gave him a sense of belonging and being part of something bigger than himself. That sense of belonging carries directly into the workplace. As Bill explains: “Being part of something larger than yourself enables you to lean on others and for them to lean on you. And so everybody has a role, right? And that’s what I feel team translates to in the workforce.”

Intentional Ways to Build Community at Work

Companies can encourage community building by providing opportunities for employees to lean on each other or support something bigger than themselves, such as:

  • Shared service/volunteering days
  • Mentorship circles
  • Employee resource groups with real charters
  • Host a book club, a happy hour, or other events during which employees can be more open and social

Using Connection to Improve Workplace Culture

Connection, trust, empathy, communication, collaboration, and community are all the ingredients for a resilient company culture. To hear more of Bill’s leadership tips and how to improve company culture, listen to the full episode. Or, explore more episodes of our mental health podcast for other insights on leadership and mental resilience in the workplace.The best way to create a resilient workplace is to support your employees’ mental health. Spirence is a preventative mental health platform that does exactly that. Book a demo today to learn how you can empower your team.


Embracing Life: Joe Coughlin's Holistic Health Journey
January 20, 2026 | By: Spirence

Embracing Life: Joe Coughlin’s Holistic Health Journey

In this episode of Prevention Pioneers, Corporate Risk Solutions’ CEO and founder, Joe Coughlin, is back for the second time. He and Laura discussed his holistic health journey and how he took care of himself following a diagnosis of prostate and lung cancer.


A potentially fatal diagnosis makes a major mental and physical impact. For Joe Coughlin, it meant clarifying how he wants to live. It also meant taking an active role in living through naturopathic medicine alongside traditional treatment.

Let’s explore Joe’s journey with holistic medicine for cancer treatment and the lessons he’s learned along the way.

The Mental Impact of a Cancer Diagnosis

Joe’s cancer diagnosis was a wake-up call that helped him clarify his purpose and his priorities. Regarding his diagnosis and the availability of treatment, he said, “I feel like I have been tapped on the shoulder…I’m given a chance to say, What are you going to do with your life…while you have it? What are you going to achieve? What are you going to advance or advocate for?”

Laura recounted that just after his diagnosis, Joe told her, “Every day right now I’m waking up, and I’m making a decision if I’m living or if I’m dying.”

Joe ultimately decided that he wanted to be an active participant in living, so he put his effort into an open-minded, holistic treatment approach.

Three-Legged Holistic Health Approach

While sitting in the podcast studio, Joe regarded a camera tripod and said, “It’s kind of like the way that I look at medicine currently, or wellness.” He used the metaphor that, like a tripod, medicine has three legs it needs to stand on: Traditional (allopathic) medicine, naturopathic medicine, and mental health. Holistic medicine for cancer treatment should include all three.

Traditional Medicine

Joe explains that traditional, or allopathic, medicine is modern medicine. Someone goes to a doctor, gets a diagnosis, and typically receives a prescription to treat it. 

Naturopathic Medicine

Naturopathic medicine uses natural, empathic medicines to treat people. Joe leaned into this approach to supplement traditional medicine.

Mental Health Treatment

Preventative mental health goes a long way towards resilience, especially when handling a life-changing diagnosis.

Supplementing Traditional Medicine to Treat Cancer

The traditional approach to cancer treatment is choosing a pharmaceutical drug to treat it and hoping that the drug works, which Joe did. However, he realized he needed more than his traditional doctors were offering. So, he added naturopathic medicine doctors to his care team.

He said, “I went into the naturopathic side in a big way, because I realized that I needed to be involved in my own health…when you’re involved, and you’re trying, it’s different than sitting on a couch at home and doing nothing and just saying, geez, I hope the medicine works. And what do you do when the medicine stops working?”

Opening his mind to supplementing traditional care gave Joe a stronger sense of agency. He explored lifestyle changes and holistic medicine for cancer treatment. Even if some of the treatments weren’t effective, at least he was trying everything he could.

His biggest lifestyle change was diet, cutting out sugar to stop feeding the cancer cells. Watch the full episode to learn more about his naturopathic treatment approaches.

Preventative Health Care and Advocating for Yourself

Preventive health care is key to preventing and detecting major illnesses early, while there’s still time to intervene. However, Joe stressed that, “You have to advocate for yourself, and you have to assume that you’re the only one making these decisions or looking and doing the due diligence on anything.”

There were moments in his healthcare journey where he felt his doctor’s missed something. For example, not catching something on a scan that led to his lung cancer a year later, or not asking about his diet in cancer treatment.

Use these tactics to advocate for your health:

  • Stay Informed – Before appointments, list what medicines and supplements you take, your conditions, unusual symptoms, allergies, family history, etc.
  • Name Your Concerns and Goals – Name these to keep appointments focused, such as “I want to confirm I’m up to date on screenings and understand my risk factors.”
  • Ask Questions – Ask questions to understand your doctor’s suggestions and next steps, such as: “What am I due for?” “If these symptoms aren’t caused by X, what are the other likely causes we should rule out?” “What results would prompt action?” “At what point do we repeat testing or refer out?” “If we’re not doing that test, what are we doing instead to monitor this, and when?”
  • Request a Documented Plan – Request a documented plan (in writing or via your patient portal), including what they’re doing, why, and when follow-up will occur.
  • Bring Backup – If you tend to freeze or forget details, bring a friend or partner to your appointments.
  • Follow Up – Confirm that your referrals, tests, and follow-ups actually got ordered and scheduled. Reach out through the portal if any results weren’t clearly explained or if symptoms change.
  • Ask for a Second Opinion if Needed – When stakes are high, or uncertainty is persistent, seek out a second opinion.

Final Thoughts on Holistic Health

Whether you get a major or minor diagnosis, you have agency in your healthcare. Traditional medicine provides a solid foundation for treatment, but advocating for yourself and seeking additional treatment modalities may help. To learn more about Joe Coughlin’s journey, listen to the full episode. Plus, check out Joe’s first appearance on our mental health podcast to learn how to spark resilience across a workforce.To learn how our preventative mental health platform, Spirence, can support your mental health, book a demo.


Heather Mitts Feeley on Purpose, Self-Care, and Staying Present
December 18, 2025 | By: Spirence

Heather Mitts Feeley on Purpose, Self-Care, and Staying Present

In this episode of Prevention Pioneers, Olympic gold medalist Heather Mitts Feeley discusses the challenge of transitioning from a professional soccer career into motherhood, how she takes care of herself, and finding purpose.


Major transitions in careers or life stages can shake your sense of purpose. For Heather Mitts Feeley, gratitude, presence, and self-care have been vital in connecting with her purpose and supporting her mental health in this chapter.

Let’s dive into her insights and explore how you can get more gratitude, presence, and self-care in your daily life.

The Challenge of Transition and Finding Purpose

For professional athletes, finding purpose after retiring from their competitive career can be a challenge. Heather explained, “We’re expected to kind of reinvent ourselves. Like, what are they going to do next? That’s always the expectation for all athletes.”

Heather’s natural athlete career transition was working in television, which required extensive travel. Her next personal step was becoming a mom, which she describes as her “most amazing phase.” However, she said, “once I added the motherhood bit into it, it was just really hard to juggle it all.”

These major career and personal transitions made her reflect on her purpose. She and Mike discussed how one can have multiple purposes throughout their life, and how these purposes can change. For Heather, reflection during the COVID-19 pandemic provided her with greater clarity on finding her purpose in life at that moment.

Gratitude

Gratitude helped Heather recognize the good things in her life, which in turn gave her clarity around her purpose. During the pandemic, she read The Gratitude Diaries by Janice Kaplan, which inspired her to write down three things she was grateful for every day.

That and the pandemic highlighted her gratitude for family, as she said, “It just made me realize that I already had so many amazing things right in front of me. It made me appreciative of what I already have. And obviously, my family was always a part of that.”

Some other ways to practice gratitude include:

  • Mindful reflection meditations
  • Writing down things you’re grateful for on slips of paper in a jar
  • Visual prompts around your home to remind you to reflect on gratitude
  • Writing more thank you notes or telling people in your life you’re thankful for them and their actions

Staying Present

After the pandemic, Heather gained more clarity on her current purpose: staying present with her family instead of being on the road.

She acknowledged that staying present is a challenge and not something she was used to as an athlete. She said, “Because all [athletes] look forward to is the next big game, the next World Cup, the next Olympics. I mean, we’re looking years in advance. So living in the present was not something that I did when I was playing in sports.”

Some tactics to help you stay present include:

  • Mindful breathing and meditation
  • Grounding exercises
  • Focusing on one task at a time instead of multitasking
  • Mindful listening
  • Body scans
  • Digital detox time
  • Practicing gratitude

Defining Success

The concept of success can put a lot of pressure on athletes, especially after they transition into a new career. Heather believes that “You get to define what success is.”

In her definition, “success is finding your purpose and your passion, doing what you love, and then doing it to the best of your ability.”

Self-Care’s Role in Mental Health

With her purpose solidified, Heather’s attention turned to preventive mental health and self-care. She realized during a discussion on another podcast that parents often overlook self-care, and many parents don’t realize they’re not taking care of themselves until they reach a breaking point.

She says that self-care for parents is “Just figuring out exactly what that is that you need in your life to kind of fill your own bucket. Because when you fill your own bucket, you’re more likely to fill everybody else’s.”

Heather’s self-care routine includes setting aside one self-care activity every day, usually meditation, and taking breaks as needed. Staying present, gratitude, and mental health also go hand in hand.

Some other ways that parents can perform self-care include:

  • Scheduling self-care time (even if it’s one activity a day)
  • Practicing mindfulness
  • Exercising
  • Connecting with others
  • Taking breaks
  • Setting boundaries socially
  • Making time for hobbies
  • Seeking help when needed

Learning From Trauma

During a self-care trip, Heather reflected on past traumas and how she’s learned from them. After her parents’ divorce, she spent time with some rebellious friends, one of whom passed away in a tragic car accident.

“I realized that soccer saved me,” Heather said, because it gave her a new purpose and surrounded her with motivated, smart teammates for inspiration.

Mental Health for Young Athletes

Heather also advocates for preventative mental health in young athletes. She reminds them that pressure and butterflies before a game are normal, and “it just means that you care and that you want to do well, and it’s just a part of the game.”

However, she acknowledges that social media provides a new challenge to mental health due to the hurtful comments people make and the difficulty in knowing how to handle them. She advises young athletes to be mindful and “If you see that something is affecting you, ask, ‘Is it worth it?’”

She suggests that they try to reflect on why a comment affects them and to work on it from there.

Final Thoughts on Purpose and Mental Health

Significant transitions and shifts in purpose occur throughout life. Knowing how to reconnect with yourself will help you stay resilient and shift through them. To learn more about Heather Mitts Feeley’s insights on purpose and self-care, listen to the full episode of our mental health podcast.To learn how Spirence, our preventative mental health platform, can help you explore gratitude, self-care, and mindfulness, book a demo of the platform.


November 26, 2025 | By: Spirence

The Holiday Survival Guide

The holiday season can be a time of warmth, reflection, and connection, but it also brings some of the most common mental health challenges of the year. As routines shift, expectations rise, and old emotional patterns get stirred up, many people find themselves feeling overwhelmed, disconnected, or unsure how to care for their well-being.


The Pressures and Patterns That Shape Holiday Mental Health

Across all ages and backgrounds, we see predictable seasonal patterns: higher stress from family dynamics, increased financial pressure, spikes in loneliness and grief, and a significant rise in emotional burnout. Moments that are supposed to feel joyful can highlight unresolved tension or surface memories of loss. For many, the season can also amplify anxiety, depression, and substance-use triggers.

Finding Your Way Through the Holiday Season

This guide is designed to support you through the moments that matter most. Whether you’re navigating family conflict, managing grief, staying grounded in a busy season, or working to protect your recovery and emotional balance, each topic in this guide provides preventative tools, practical strategies, and evidence-based support.

Our goal is simple: To help you stay connected, centered, and well—no matter what this holiday season brings.


Your Holiday Well-Being Guide Starts Here

This guide is organized around the most common challenges people face during the holiday season, because everyone’s experience is different, and every feeling deserves care.

When family stress and conflict take over

Even the closest families can slip back into old patterns during the holidays. This seminar gives you practical tools to communicate clearly, set boundaries, and protect your peace even when emotions run high.

When emotions feel heavy

The season often highlights who’s missing, what’s changed, or what still hurts. This seminar guides you through grief and emotional weight with gentleness, validation, and space to breathe.

When you need help regulating

From travel logistics to packed schedules, the holidays feel like a nonstop emotional upswing. See how to recognize your triggers, steady your nervous system, and return to a grounded state.

When mindfulness and gratitude feel far away

If joy feels forced or you’re just going through the motions, you’re not alone. These tools bring you back into presence — helping you notice what’s real, not what’s expected.

When addiction or recovery triggers surface

Seasonal gatherings can stir painful memories or situations that test your progress. Gain strategies to move through triggers with strength and stability.

When you’re craving connection

Sometimes the hardest part of the holidays is feeling alone, even in a room full of people. Learn how to rebuild meaningful connection, with others, with community, and with yourself.

Your Season of Care

The holidays don’t have to be perfect to be meaningful. They don’t have to look like anyone else’s version of joy. What matters most is how you care for yourself gently, consistently, and without judgment.


Your Feelings Deserve Space and Compassion

This season may bring moments of comfort and closeness, or it may surface stress, loneliness, old wounds, and unexpected emotions. All of that is human. All of that is allowed. When you pause, acknowledge what you’re feeling, and offer yourself support in real time, you create space for a steadier, more grounded kind of peace.

Let These Tools Be a Companion, Not a Checklist

Use what you need, when you need it. Return to the resources that help you breathe easier. Set boundaries that protect your energy. Reach for connection when it feels nourishing. Pull back when you need rest. There is no “right” way to move through this season.

Your Well-Being Matters, Especially Now

More than anything, remember this: Your well-being matters, deeply. Not after the holidays. Not when life quiets down. Now.

You deserve a season that makes room for your healing, your comfort, and your joy—exactly as you are.

Warm Wishes From the Spirence Team

From all of us at Spirence, we wish you a season filled with moments of rest, connection, and genuine care. However the holidays look for you this year, we’re honored to support your well-being and grateful to be part of your journey.

Wishing you a peaceful and meaningful holiday season.


Prevention Pioneers. Leading Through Chaos: Insights from Jack Lynch
November 21, 2025 | By: Spirence

Leading Through Chaos: Insights from Jack Lynch

In this episode of Prevention Pioneers, Jack Lynch, former President and CEO of Main Line Health, shares valuable insights on leadership in crisis during the COVID-19 pandemic and the role that communication and workforce well-being play.


Every workplace will face a crisis at some point. For the healthcare industry, the COVID-19 pandemic created years of chaos. Jack Lynch guided Main Line Health through this chaos by “Being transparent, explaining why, and empowering people.”

Let’s dive into his insights and explore how you can use these principles in your own crisis leadership.

The Challenges of the COVID-19 Pandemic for Leadership

The COVID-19 pandemic presented unique challenges to leaders. Its prolonged and unpredictable nature was difficult to manage.

Healthcare facilities can withstand a short storm, but Jack remarks, “This was not a storm. This wasn’t a hurricane. This wasn’t a flood. This was years of an onslaught of an illness that was very communicable and had bad outcomes.”

Jack’s crisis leadership during this time focused on two areas: adaptability and resilience. His strategy focused on staff safety, maintaining morale, and managing resources.

The Importance of Transparent Leadership in Crisis

Leadership in crisis requires transparent communication. Jack says, “My philosophy is: you be transparent because you’re going to get yourself in trouble if you’re not transparent.” Transparency supports resilience in the workplace, enabling your team to adapt to new information.

When sharing important direction, Jack stresses, “If you tell people why, they’re more likely to do what you need to do to get the job done.” Rather than giving an order, explain why it’s important to your mission. For example, explain why a particular protocol protects staff from COVID-19 transmission.

Benefits of Transparent Leadership in Crisis

  • Builds trust: Being open and honest fosters trust and credibility, which is crucial during uncertain times.
  • Eases fears: Clear communication helps reduce fear by enabling employees to understand the situation.
  • Enhances team unity: Transparency brings people together around the organization’s goals and challenges.
  • Supports better decision-making: When employees are informed, they can make better decisions.
  • Increases engagement: When employees feel like they’re part of the conversation and understand the “why,” they’re more likely to stay engaged.
  • Strengthens resilience in the workplace: Open lines of communication build a resilient organizational culture.

Empowering Employees

For Jack, empowering employees is a key component of building resilience in the workplace. He states, “Empowering staff means giving them the tools and the authority to make decisions on the ground.”

Some ways that leaders can foster empowerment include:

  • Fostering open dialogue
  • Clarifying goals and expectations
  • Providing autonomy in decision-making
  • Offering constructive feedback
  • Recognizing and celebrating success
  • Investing in professional development
  • Encouraging problem-solving

Preventive Health as a Key Strategy

Jack also discusses the key role of prevention in healthcare as a whole. He says, “Preventing people from getting sick is good for healthcare.” This is because healthcare facilities have limited resources. Preventive healthcare enables them to focus resources where they’re needed most.

Prevention is also key to workforce well-being. As Jack says, “A healthy workforce is how we all get our jobs done.”

Supporting Mental Health in the Workplace

Preventative mental health is a significant factor in resilience in the workplace. Crisis leadership can especially benefit from mental health support.

This begins with open discussion around mental health to reduce the stigma. Jack says, “The brain is just another organ in the body…why shouldn’t people pick up the phone and say, hey, can you help me find a mental health professional to help me deal with stress?”

Employers need to offer support systems for proper preventative mental health. For Main Line Health, one of those was its Critical Incident Response Team (CIRT). CIRT is an on-call “psychological first-aid” system to support employees during a crisis in the workplace.

Another way employers can support preventative mental health is by supplying education. Spirence is a mental health platform that helps employees build resilience, navigate stress, and prevent burnout.

Implementing Employee Support Systems

Especially during a crisis, employee support systems are a key component of workforce well-being. Jack discusses how in healthcare, “We used to have a huge initiative around patient safety… we started a real focus where we talk about safety, not just about the patient, but about the employees.”

Some other ways employers can support their employees include:

  • Offering wellness programs to support preventative health
  • Provide professional development opportunities
  • Create peer support networks
  • Establish regular feedback channels

Final Thoughts on Crisis & Resilience

Crisis and chaos are normal parts of life. How leaders respond and support resiliency in their workforce is key. To learn more about Jack Lynch’s insights on crisis leadership, preventative health, and mental health support, tune in to the full episode.


To learn more about how Spirence supports mental health prevention, book a demo of the platform.


November 17, 2025 | By: Spirence

How to Support Mental Health in the Workplace with Spirence

Support for Your Staff, a Partner for Your Organization

As employees today face mounting stress, burnout, and mental health challenges, what does it take to build a workforce that is not only productive but resilient? Employers know mental wellness among staff is vital but too often try to navigate this challenge without the right tools, expertise, or resources to provide meaningful support.

We created Spirence to serve as more than just a mental health solution but a true partner in workplace well-being. We offer organizations a full suite of evidence-based resources and expert-led coaching to create a culture that empowers employees to manage their mental health. 

If you’re eager to learn how to support mental health in the workplace, follow these few steps and remember you don’t have to do it alone. 

Bake Mental Wellness into Your Culture

Despite progress in workplace mental health conversations, stigma still holds many employees back from seeking help. More than half of people with mental illness don’t seek help or treatment. Given how much time people spend at work, employers have to understand they play a key role in normalizing mental health discussions. Organizations can do this by fostering an environment that emphasizes mental wellness just as much as physical wellness. 

This begins with leaders and managers speaking openly about self-care and giving employees a completely private and confidential way to seek support without the fear of judgment. Spirence offers courses, interactive coaching sessions, and expert seminars that allow employees to improve their mental well-being without needing to involve HR or disclose personal struggles.

Recognize That Every Employee’s Needs Are Different

No two employees are the same, and everyone’s mental health goals are different. Some may need occasional guidance on managing stress, while others require structured support to navigate workplace challenges, career growth, or personal well-being. 

Not only does Spirence have AI-powered mental health assessments to help employees identify their unique challenges and recommend customized courses, but we also offer coaching and clinical resources to match their needs. Our one-on-one coaching service provides confidential, tailored guidance designed to meet each employee’s specific needs. Whether they’re looking to enhance leadership skills, improve workplace communication, or develop better coping strategies, our experienced coaches are there to provide expert support every step of the way.

One Spirence user shared their experience:

“My coach taught me how to communicate more effectively with my manager and colleagues. Those skills carried over to my personal life. I truly can’t believe the positive impact coaching has had on my relationships, professionally and personally. I am more confident, assertive, and happy!”

Make Mental Health Support Available Anytime, Anywhere

One of the biggest barriers to care is access. Between high out-of-pocket costs, long wait times, scheduling conflicts, and provider shortages (most states have fewer than 40% of the mental health professionals needed), there are often multiple hurdles preventing people from getting the care they need when they need it. 

Partnering with Spirence removes these barriers, ensuring their workforce has immediate, around-the-clock access to mental health support that fits into their lives, not the other way around. Our global mental health resources are available in 130+ languages, so every employee can find support without worrying about waitlists or time zones.

Empower Employees with Self-Guided Mental Wellness Tools

One of the greatest shortfalls of most mental health offerings from employers is that they are reactionary instead of preventative. Mental wellness doesn’t have to begin with crisis intervention, nor should it. Instead, give your team the tools to develop resilience and emotional intelligence before problems escalate. 

75% of employees are mentally well and just want access to resources that fit into their daily routines. Spirence offers an extensive digital library of expert-led courses designed to teach employees stress management, emotional regulation, and mindfulness techniques. These short, engaging sessions allow employees to build wellness skills at their own pace and teach how to recognize when they may need to seek more advanced counseling.

Take Action with Spirence

Workplace mental health isn’t just about offering benefits—it’s about creating real, accessible solutions that employees actually use. A truly resilient workforce requires personalized, proactive support that meets employees where they are. With 24/7 access to mental health tools, AI-driven guidance, expert-led coaching, and critical incident services, Spirence helps organizations move beyond reactive wellness initiatives to build a culture championing everyday mental well-being.

You don’t have to do this alone. Spirence is ready to be your partner in workplace mental wellness. Schedule a free demo or call us today at (866) 989-4028 and get started.


October 30, 2025 | By: Spirence

Why Vulnerability Is a Leader’s Superpower (And How to Leverage It)

In it, Laura sits down with Katrina Moriarty, COO of Aon Consumer Benefit Solutions and mental health advocate.


Together, they discuss what it actually takes to lead well in today’s workplace. They also talk about the leadership moment that changed everything for Katrina, and why it’s important for leaders everywhere to model vulnerability, openness, and calm in times of change to foster trust, psychological safety, and stronger team performance.

If you’ve ever felt the tension between performance and self-preservation, this is the episode for you, so tune in, and keep reading!

Be the Swan, NOT the Duck

Katrina’s most powerful leadership lesson didn’t come from a class or conference, it came from someone pulling her aside and saying: “You’re flapping around like a duckling when your team needs to see a swan.”

At the time, she was reacting to every problem, jumping into every issue, and trying to save the day. But that image stuck. She realized that leadership isn’t about fixing everything, it’s about showing calm in the storm so others can do their best work. Now, she leads massive teams not by micromanaging, but by mentoring and modeling steadiness under pressure.

Talk the Talk and Walk the Walk

Katrina doesn’t just talk about mental health, she also models it: she takes time off, she walks, she rests, she sets boundaries, and she expects her team to do the same.

In a world where leaders say “take care of yourself” but email on PTO, Katrina is refreshingly aligned. When her team runs too hard, she steps in and says: “Go home, unplug, we’ve got you.” 

That kind of leadership sends a message louder than any wellness campaign.

Where Culture Happens

When companies go through change, most of the focus is on strategy and structure. But as Katrina says, “transition,” the messy, emotional, in-between space, is where culture either deepens or deteriorates.

Change without space for people to react, ask questions, and feel seen? That’s a recipe for resistance, and disaster. But when leaders move at the right pace, communicate openly, and support their teams emotionally, real transformation becomes possible.

Why Leadership Is Personal

Katrina used to believe that sharing personal challenges at work would hold her back. Now, she sees it as essential. When leaders share what they’re going through (appropriately and honestly) it creates a ripple of trust that opens doors for others to do the same.

She doesn’t perform vulnerability; she lives it. And it’s what makes her leadership style not just effective, but human.

Final Thoughts

This episode is a reminder that leadership isn’t just about vision or execution, it’s about presence and about being steady when things get messy, honest when things get hard, and human all the way through. 

We discuss all of this in more detail in this episode, so make sure to tune in if you want to catch the whole conversation!


October 14, 2025 | By: Spirence

Slowing Down Is Your Fastest Path to Growth

In this episode of Prevention Pioneers, our host Laura sits down with Matt Espe, a chairman, director, advisor, and investor who has led transformations in several multi-billion-dollar firms (including Armstrong, GE, and Icon), to talk about the one leadership shift that changed everything for him: Patience.


Matt discusses what it takes to achieve sustainable transformation and why leaders everywhere need to prioritize team wellbeing, trust, and patience just as much as strategy and execution.

If you’re leading through a time of uncertainty or transformation, this episode is for you, so don’t miss it!

Slowing Down to Speed Up

Matt’s biggest leadership lesson didn’t come from a boardroom; it came from a quiet conversation behind a closed door. He was running full-speed to fix a broken billion-dollar plant, when a trusted colleague told him: “You’re leading, but nobody’s following.”

That moment stopped him in his tracks. He realized he was so focused on results, he’d forgotten to bring his team with him. That moment completely changed how he leads and how he supports mental health in the workplace.

It’s Not a Sprint, It’s a Relay

In fast-moving transformations, leaders are trained to look at the vision, the strategy, and the stakeholders. But leadership also requires looking back: checking if people are with you, understanding where they are, and adjusting the pace accordingly.

Too many leaders burn through teams in the name of progress. But transformation isn’t just about getting things done, it’s about allowing your employees to survive the process. Slowing down, listening more, and calibrating your message to the people on the ground can actually speed up sustainable results.

Repeat, Repeat, Repeat

One of Matt’s biggest tools is repetition. Not the flashy motivational speech kind, but the boring, effective, drumbeat kind. He tells leaders to take two or three priorities and repeat them so many times they get sick of hearing themselves; because that’s when people actually start to hear it.

During big changes, your message needs to cut through fear, complexity, and distraction. Simplicity and consistency are what help a message stick, and help a culture shift.

Why Wellbeing Is a Strategic Priority

Mental fatigue hits long before physical burnout, especially during periods of transformation. That’s why your employees’ wellbeing is not just a perk, but as a strategic imperative.

Through it, you can build cultures where people can speak up, where leaders make space for psychological safety, and where listening comes before directives.

Final Thoughts

In a world that equates speed with success, Matt’s message is refreshingly counterintuitive: slowing down is what makes change last. It helps your team feel seen, gives your message time to land, and ensures you’re not the only one crossing the finish line.

We discuss all of this in more detail in this episode, so make sure to tune in if you want to catch the whole conversation!


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